And the verdict is...

We have been trying to decide whether to pursue adoption or IVF. This weekend we were able to watch the Prophet and apostles of our church speak in General Conference. They gave many inspiring talks about trials. I got the feeling that we basically needed to make the decision ourselves, then ask the Lord if we are doing the right thing. I felt the prompting that I was sent to this earth in a time where we have the medical technology that would allow us to do something such as IVF. So today, I decided to go with IVF. We still want to do one more IUI before IVF and we are going to take that time to educate ourselves as much as possible about IVF. D has a cousin who recently had a baby by IVF so we plan on calling them and getting their perspective and experience with it. Hopefully the next IUI will work, but if not, at least we now have a plan.